Wasiku zuwa Amurka
Domin renon yara yana cike da sauye-sauye.
Gangamin Ba da Labarin Ƙasa daga GenderCool
Wasiƙa daga iyaye ɗaya. Wani iyaye ne ke karantawa da sauti. Gayyata don gane abin da muke rabawa.
Karanta bayanin bidiyon na Turanci
An rubuta daga bidiyon Turanci, har da martanin masu karantawa.
Do I need a tissue for this?
Dear Dawn, I hope you and your family are well. It's hard to believe that when you started cutting my children's hair, they were toddlers. Now they're in their 20s. We knew raising children was one of life's greatest adventures. But it was also the hardest job either of us ever had. In middle school, you realize swaddling a newborn was nothing compared to helping them navigate.
Friend drama, not making a team, feeling like they don't belong, or realizing that they made someone else feel that way. You may not know, but Knox is now a senior in college. He gives tours as a student ambassador and helps recruit new students. He works at a summer camp for kids with autism, tutoring, and teaching archery. He is truly one of the kindest people I've ever known.
He'll graduate in May with a degree in anthropology, and he is also transgender.
This, of course, you do know because you were one of my first calls after he came out. I explained the situation and asked if you would cut his hair. And you simply said that you'd be honored. A friend of mine happened to see him leaving from one of these first haircuts and told me he seemed to be standing taller and smiling brighter. She said she'd never seen him happier.
I'll always be grateful. It was you who was there when a haircut wasn't just a haircut. And I can only hope more people realize what we learned. That all parents want their kids to be safe, healthy, and happy people,
and treat others with respect. We all want the same thing. And you were the first to teach me that, Dawn. Jeez.
I wish you the best for whatever comes next in your parenting journey, and thank you from the bottom of my heart for the difference you've made in mine. Sincerely, Mary Edwards.
Like, you just want your kid to be happy and healthy and loved, and it really is what we all want, right? You just keep figuring it out, you know? You just keep figuring it out.
Kalmomin iyaye ɗaya. Muryar wani iyaye.
Wasiƙar tana kasancewa mallakin iyayen da suka rubuta ta. Karatun yana kawo waɗancan kalmomi zuwa muryar wani iyaye, ba tare da wani rubutaccen bayani kan yadda za su mayar da martani ba. Wannan haɗuwa ta gogewa da martani na gaskiya yana ba da damar fahimtar juna.
“We knew raising children was one of life's greatest adventures.”Fahimta tana farawa ne da sauraro.
Wasiku zuwa Amurka ita ce shirin GenderCool na ba da labari na ƙasa don shekarar 2026. Iyaye masu ƴaƴan da suke cisgender suna karanta wasiƙun da iyayen matasa transgender da nonbinary suka rubuta, ba tare da wani rubutaccen jawabi ba.
A cikin kalmomin wani, iyaye suna fuskantar abubuwan da suka sani: ƙauna ga 'ya'yansu, tsoro ga tsaron lafiyarsu, da bege ga makomarsu. Haɗin gwiwa yana farawa daga nan—ba a cikin muhawara ba, amma a cikin ƙwarewar zama iyaye.
“It's hard to believe that when you started cutting my children's hair, they were toddlers.”Yadda haɗin gwiwa yake faruwa
Wasiƙa
Iyaye na matashi transgender ko nonbinary suna rubuta game da gogewarsu a matsayin iyaye.
Karatun
Iyaye na yaro wanda yake cisgender suna karanta wannan wasiƙar da sauti, ba tare da wani rubutaccen jawabi ba.
Haɗin gwiwa
Ana gayyatar masu sauraro su gane ƙauna, tsoro, da bege da ake rabawa a cikin gogewar iyali daban-daban.
“Like, you just want your kid to be happy and healthy and loved”
“He is truly one of the kindest people I've ever known.”Dabi'u iri ɗaya. Ba ɓangarori masu hamayya ba.
Ga mutanen da suke buɗe ga fahimta amma watakila ba su san matashin transgender ko nonbinary ba, muryar iyaye na iya ba da matakin farko da aka saba da shi. Iyaye su ne manzanni abin amincewa, suna taimakawa wajen isa ga mutanen da ra'ayoyinsu har yanzu suke tasowa.
Wasiku zuwa Amurka tana gina fahimta ta hanyar labarai maimakon tursasawa. Tana mai da hankali kan abin da iyaye suke rabawa yayin mutunta bambance-bambance a rayuwarsu.
Ƙauna wuri ne na farawa.
Ba lallai ne mu raba kowane gogewa ba don gane ƙaunar iyaye ga ɗansu.