2026 GenderCool Isango Lamava
Amava asebenzisanayo okufunda ngolutsha olutshintshe isini nolungazichazi njengendoda okanye ibhinqa ngokuthe ngqo kwii-GenderCool Champions, ukuphikisa iinkolelo ezingeyonyaniso eziqhelekileyo, nokufumanisa indlela yokuba ngumxhasi.
Sifunde ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwabelana ngobuntu bethu kukuqala ngokwabelana ngamabali ethu. Singakhangela izinto esifana ngazo ngoxa sikwabhiyozela nezinto ezenza umntu ngamnye kuthi ahluke. Ekugqibeleni, umsebenzi wombutho wethu ongenzi ngeniso, i-The GenderCool Project, ugxile kuthando nenkxaso engenamiqathango. Wonke umntu wamkelekile kwaye uxatyisiwe apha.
Yintoni kanye le nto kuthethwa ngayo ngabantu abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary?
Ndandingazange ndadibana nomntu oselula oyi-transgender xa intombi yam yandixelela imfihlo yayo yaza yandibuza, "Usaza kundithanda na?"
John Grosshandler (he/him) Umseki weGenderCool
Kwividiyo engezantsi sibuze abantu lo mbuzo...
Ngaba uyazazi iinkcazelo zamagama athi transgender okanye nonbinary?
- Inkcazelo yegama elithi transgender Cofa
- Umntu oyi-transgender (ngamanye amaxesha kufutshane kuthiwe ngumntu oyi-trans) ngumntu osini sakhe sahlukileyo kwisini awabelwa sona ekuzalweni.
- Inkcazelo yegama elithi nonbinary Cofa
- Umntu oyi-nonbinary ngumntu ongazichazi njengendoda kuphela okanye njengomfazi kuphela. Umntu oyi-nonbinary usenokuziva eyindibanisela yezini, okanye azive engenasini kwaphela.
Kwividiyo engezantsi siphinde sabuza kwaaba bantu umbuzo wesibini...
Ngaba kukho umntu omaziyo?
Ukuba yi-transgender ngenene yenye yezona zinto zinganiki mdla kangako ngam.
Daniel (he/him) GenderCool Champion
Apha kwi- GenderCool Project iinkokeli zethu eziselula zikhokela yonke into esiyenzayo. Amazwi azo anamandla kwaye ayakhuthaza . Ngokwabelana ngamabali azo ziyanceda ekususeni izimvo ezisekelwe kulwazi olungeyonyani. Sizibiza ngokuba zii-GenderCool Champions .
Xa umba wolutsha oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary uqala ukukuchaphazela buqu...
Kwividiyo engezantsi, sibuze abantu lo mbuzo...
Ngaba kukho umntu omaziyo?
Ndixelela abantu ukuba mababaphulaphule abantwana babo. Vula intliziyo yakho uvale umlomo wakho. Asiyonto izizela lula kum leyo. Ndifuna ukuthetha ndizame ukulungisa izinto. Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ume nje uze umphulaphule umntwana wakho.
Trisha, (she/her) Umzali weGenderCool Project
Ukwamkela kunokuba lula
Ucinga ntoni ngabanye abantu obabona kwiindawo zikawonke-wonke?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba sazi sonke isigama se-LGBTQ+ ukuze samkele abanye. Enyanisweni, asifanele sigxile ekuchazeni ukuba abanye bangoobani. Banike abanye indawo nentuthuzelo yokuba bazichaze kuwe. Ividiyo engezantsi ibonisa indlela ii-GenderCool Champions zethu ezicinga ngayo ngokwamkela.
Namhlanje lusuku
Ukwamkela akuveli ekuqondeni. Ukwamkela kuvela eluthandweni.
Gearah Goldstein ( she/her) Umseki weGenderCool
Ukubhenca iintsomi
Musani ukusigweba ningekasazi
Amir (he/him) GenderCool Project Champion
Iintsomi eziyingozi ngolutsha oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary.
Kukho ulwazi oluninzi olungeyonyani olusasazwayo ngabantwana abayi-transgender, abantu ababagcinayo, kwanababoneleli babo bezempilo. Masiyitshintshe loo nto! Cofa isihloko ngasinye (+) ukuze usivule.
Abantwana abakrelekrele okanye abadala ngokwaneleyo ukuba bazi isini sabo
Abanye abagxeki bathi abantwana abakwazi ukwahlula umdlalo wentelekelelo kubuntu babo obendeleyo, bekholelwa ukuba ulutsha lungaqeqeshwa ukuba lwamkele ubuwena be-transgender, okanye ukuba amaqonga onxibelelwano aphembelela ulutsha ukuba lwenjenjalo. Uphando lwe-American Psychological Association lubonisa ukuba inkoliso yabantwana, kuquka abantwana abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary, sele benengqiqo eyomeleleyo yesini sabo xa beneminyaka emi-2. Abanye abantwana abangekakwazi ukuthetha bayasiqonda isini sabo kwanangaphambi kokuba bathethe, njengoko kubonakala kumazwi abo okuqala anjengathi "Andiyontombazana" okanye "Ungandinxibisi ilokhwe." Uphononongo luqinisekisile ukuba abantwana abayi-trans banokuba nesazisi sesini esomeleleyo njengeso soontanga babo, lugxininisa ukuba nabantwana abancinane kakhulu abathi abasiso isini ababelwa sona bayakwazi kwaye bayasazi isini sabo sokwenene.
Zibini kuphela izini
Yonke le nto imalunga nenzululwazi. Ibhayoloji nenzululwazi kudala zisamkela izini ezingaphaya kokwahlulwa kube ngamadoda nabafazi kuphela. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu babhidanisa isini sebhayoloji (maxa wambi esibizwa ngokuba yi-"biological sex") nengqiqo yabo enzulu yesazisi sesini. Wonke umntu uzalwa enesazisi sesini; sibonakala ngakumbi xa singangqinelani nesini esabelwa sona ekuzalweni.
Ulutsha oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary luyabacaphukisa okanye lubabhidanise abanye abantwana
Abanye abantu boyika ukuba xa abantwana bedibana nabantwana abayi-transgender okanye abayi-nonbinary, baya kubhideka ngesini sabo. Akunjalo. Amava abantu abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary anqabile. Amaxesha amaninzi, abantwana abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary bazifumana bengabo bodwa abanala mava obomi kumaqela abahlobo nakwabo bafunda nabo. Enyanisweni, ngoku kukho amawaka abantwana abangabahlobo babantwana abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary ngaphandle kokudala nakuphi na ukubhideka. Izizukulwana eziselula zibandakanya kwaye zamkela abanye ngakumbi.
Abantu bakhetha ukuba yi-transgender okanye yi-nonbinary
Abantu bayaqonda ukuba abasiso isini ababelwa sona ekuzalweni. Asikokhetho. Ngendlela efanayo abantu abayi-cisgender abazazi ngayo ukuba bangoobani, abantu abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary nabo bayazazi ukuba bangoobani. Ekuphela kokhetho kukuba bakhetha ukwabelana nabanye ngaloo nto okanye hayi.
Ukuba yi-transgender okanye yi-nonbinary ngumkhwa okanye yinto entsha
Abantu abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary babhaliwe kwiinkcubeko ezininzi zemveli, zaseNtshona nezaseMpuma ukutyhubela imbali, ukususela ekuqaleni. Noko ke, indlela esiqondwa ngayo isini iyahluka ngokweenkcubeko nangokwemibutho yoluntu.
Ingcebiso yabazali
Kum, i-GenderCool ithetha ukwamkela oko sikuko ngaphakathi.
Hayden (she/her) GenderCool Champion
Isizukulwana sam sigxile ekubeni SINGOOBANI.
Amir (he/him) GenderCool Champion
Xa abantu abayi-transgender nabayi-nonbinary befumana inkxaso, siyaphumelela.
Daniel (he/him) GenderCool Champion
Abantu abayi-nonbinary bakho kuyo yonke indawo. Silusapho lwakho, abahlobo bakho, nabantu osebenza nabo
Cactus (they/them) GenderCool Champion
Yavela phi yonke le ntiyo?
Uluhlu lwemibutho edala umonakalo.
Kule minyaka ingamashumi amabini idlulileyo, bekukho imibutho embalwa egxile ekucinezeleni abanye babantu abajongelwa phantsi kakhulu, kuquka abantwana abayi-transgender. Siyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze olwakho uphando kodwa nceda ukhumbule ukuba yonke imibutho ephambili yezonyango namagunya aphambili ezempilo ehlabathini ayayixhasa inkathalo yezempilo yabantu abayi-transgender, kuquka ulutsha oluyi-transgender.
Kuyo yonke le nto, ulutsha oluyi-trans luyaphumelela xa luxhaswa, kwaye luyakhokela!
Ifilimu enamandla nechukumisa intliziyo engezantsi ibalaselisa omnye wemisebenzi emangalisayo yee-GenderCool Champions.
Siguqula Ihlabathi
Oko Kuthethwa Kukuba Ngumxhasi
Yenza Into Entle!
Ukuba ngumxhasi kunokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kumntu ngamnye. Nanga amacebiso okunceda ukuqhubela phambili inkxaso. Kodwa nceda ukhumbule... Ngaphandle kokuthatha inyathelo, akunakwenzeka ukuba ngumxhasi.
Kufuneka sonke simanyane, samkele abanye kwaye sizamkele nathi.
Eve ( s he/her) GenderCool Project Champion
- Phulaphula amava abanye abantu. Ukuphulaphula ngenyameko kunokuba yenye yezona ndlela zinempembelelo yokuba ngumxhasi. Sakuba siphulaphule saza safunda kumava abantu, siba kwindawo engcono yokuqonda ezona ndlela zilungileyo zokubaxhasa.
- Thethelela abanye. Kufuneka singene kwiincoko ezinzima ngamanye amaxesha ukuze sibathethelele abo sibaxhasayo. Masisoloko siboleka amazwi ethu kwabo bangakwaziyo ukuzithethelela.
- Yiba nobubele. Mhlawumbi le yeyona ndlela ilula yokuba ngumxhasi.
Iindawo ezisebenza yonke imihla ukuphucula ubomi babantu be-LGBTQ+.
Kukho amakhulu amaninzi emibutho encede uluntu lwe-LGBTQ+ kule minyaka ingaphezu kwama-50 idlulileyo.
Siyazi ukuba eyona nkxaso ilungileyo ivela kwiintsapho, kubahlobo, kubamelwane, kuluntu nakwizikolo ezingenakubalwa. Ngaphaya koko, imibutho ye-LGBTQ+ ikhokele ekufundiseni nasekulweleni inkululeko efanele wonke umntu.
Xa ulutsha oluyi-transgender lufumana inkxaso oluyidingayo, luyaphumelela.
Inkxaso kumaziko emfundo ephakamileyo
Ngaphezu kwe- 200 yeekholeji neeyunivesithi zibe ziinkokeli ekuxhaseni kakuhle bonke abafundi be-LGBTQ+. Kangangamashumi eminyaka, la maziko alandele inzululwazi ephathelele kwimpilo nakwinkxaso yabafundi be-LGBTQ+.
Iinkampani Eziphumelelayo Ziyabaxhasa Abantu Be-LGBTQ+.
Kuthathe amashumi amaninzi eminyaka enzima ukuba uluntu lwe-LGBTQ+ lufumane inkxaso emsebenzini. Okuvuyisayo kukuba, ngoku iinkampani ezininzi ziyaqonda ukuba indawo yokusebenza enabantu abahlukahlukeneyo iyingenelo ngakumbi kwingeniso. I-GenderCool isebenza nabaxhasi bethu beenkampani abangaphezu kwama-50 ehlabathini lonke ukuze inike abazali bazo abanabantwana abayi-transgender okanye abayi-nonbinary izixhobo ezikhethwe ngobunono ezinokuguqula, zide zisindise, ubomi. I-GenderCool ikwanceda iinkampani zilungiselele abasebenzi besizukulwana esilandelayo apho phantse umntu om-1 kwabathathu abaselula ezichaza njenge-LGBTQ+.
Ingcebiso Kwiinkampani
Zisa i-The GenderCool Project emsebenzini wakho!
I-GenderCool isebenze neenkampani ezininzi eziphambili kule minyaka mi-6 idlulileyo. Abaxhasi namahlakani ethu angoku bayalazi ixabiso lokulungiselela abasebenzi besizukulwana esilandelayo. Gcwalisa uphando olusekupheleni kwale portal ukuze ufunde ngakumbi ngendlela i-GenderCool enokukuxhasa ngayo wena okanye umqeshi wakho.
Abasebenzi besizukulwana esilandelayo sele belapha . Nabathengi baya besanda besuka kwi-Generation Z. Enyanisweni, phantse i-30% ye-Gen Z iyi-LGBTQ+. Iinkampani eziphumelelayo azibalibali aba bantu ngoxa zifikelela kwiinjongo zazo.
The GenderCool Project
Injongo ye-The GenderCool Project kukususa izimvo ezisekelwe kulwazi olungeyonyani ngokuzitshintsha ngamava anamandla namahle okudibana nolutsha oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary oluphumelelayo, kunye neentsapho zalo.
I-GenderCool isebenza nee-Champions ezimangalisayo ezingaphezu kwama-20—ulutsha olwahlukeneyo oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary oluneminyaka eli-12 nangaphezulu—ukuze iguqule ibali elibaliswayo ngolutsha oluyi-transgender noluyi-nonbinary. Ngokuphuhlisa iinkokeli, ukufundisa, ukuthethelela nokubonakala, i-GenderCool inempembelelo ekhethekileyo kwinkcubeko, kumgaqo-nkqubo nakushishino ehlabathini lonke. I-GLAAD yenye yemibutho emininzi engenzi ngeniso ephakamisa amazwi ee-GenderCool Champions ukuze incede kubonakale ubuntu bazo kwaye isuse ukungaqondwa kokuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba yi-transgender. Bukela ngezantsi ii-GenderCool Champions zifumana i-GLAAD Media Award (efana nee-Oscar zamajelo eendaba e-LGBTQ+) ngenxa yomsebenzi wazo okhuthazayo.
GLAAD
Uphando lwe-GenderCool Experience Portal
Ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi uze ufumane izinto zasimahla?
Izinto Zasimahla Ze-GenderCool!
Siyakuxabisa
Sinethemba lokuba ufumanise ukuba i-GenderCool Experience Portal yindlela ekhethekileyo nenempembelelo yokufunda ngolutsha kunye neentsapho, abahlobo noluntu oluluxhasayo. Sinethemba lokuba uya kuqhubela phambili oko ukufundileyo uze ufumane eyakho indlela yokuba ngumxhasi wabo bonke abasweleyo. Nceda uthumele eli khonkco le-portal kwabanye ocinga ukuba bangazuza ngokuyisebenzisa okanye ulifake kumajelo akho onxibelelwano https://gendercool.org/experience